
Before you have s*x with someone, you should learn how to finger yourself. That way, when it’s his turn, you’ll know how to direct him.
Everyone likes having the option of having s*x as opposed to mastur&ati#g, but it’s normal that everyone goes through some dry spells. During those dry spells, you should be able to self-satisfy your needs. I mean, if you don’t know how to finger yourself and get yourself off, your partner will not know either.