Before you have s*x with someone, you should learn how to finger yourself. That way, when it’s his turn, you’ll know how to direct him.
Everyone likes having the option of having s*x as opposed to mastur&ati#g, but it’s normal that everyone goes through some dry spells. During those dry spells, you should be able to self-satisfy your needs. I mean, if you don’t know how to finger yourself and get yourself off, your partner will not know either.
How to finger yourself – the right way
Whether you’re still a virgin or very experienced in the sack, it’s always fun to have some solo s*x. But if you’re in a rut with nothing but your vibrator, don’t worry. Here are some tips on how to properly finger yourself.
#1 Wash your hands. In the movies, the girl is usually on her bed texting and suddenly she gets an urge to masturbate. Okay, do you know how much bacteria is on a cell phone?
You’re in the moment, I get that. But quickly running to the bathroom to wash your hands isn’t a bad idea. It takes less than a minute. Your Vagi#a is your holy temple, so just go the extra step in making sure you’re not allowing bad bacteria to go inside. Wash. Your. Hands.
#2 Hygiene, ladies. Aside from washing your hands, you want to make sure that your hygiene is kept up. Make sure your fingernails are clean as a lot of bacteria nestle underneath them.
In addition, also make sure your Vagi#a is clean and fresh. You don’t want an infection. Besides, mastur&ati#g when you’re fresh just feels better.
#3 You don’t have to start at your Vagi#a. When turning yourself on, you don’t have to all of a sudden make a bull’s eye to your Vagi#a. You can actually start by rubbing and squeezing your breasts, sucking on your fingers and then start to rub or touch your Vagi#a.
Women take longer to get turned on, and so you should take your time warming up your body. Enjoy exploring your body, because masturbation isn’t just about your Vagi#a. Although that is where you finger yourself.
#4 Find a safe place. Mastur&ati#g when your friend is in the next room may be a little risky, because they might walk in. You want to masturbate when you’re in a safe and relaxing space. Put on some music or your favorite movie – whatever turns you on. This is your time to pleasure yourself, so tailor it to your liking.
#5 Incorporate toys. If you’re trying to learn about your body, I wouldn’t recommend using toys right away. Take the time to figure out how to orga#m using your fingers, and once you’ve mastered that, then use toys during masturbation.
You can use vibrators or dildos. They’ll be able to stimulate you, and plus, it’s fun to mix things up a bit.
#6 caress your clit. When you finger yourself, you’ll also want to focus on your clitoris. Take your fingers and move then up and down or side-to-side. Personally, I find up and down works better.
You can slip in another finger if you like, however, usually women stick to either one or two fingers.
#7 Slide your fingers in. You can then slide either one or two fingers inside, either all the way in or partially. Bend your fingers a bit, they’ll rub against your wall creating more stimulation. It’ll feel great, and you’ll have a higher chance of hitting your g-spot. Try to find a rhythm with your fingers that further stimulates you.
#8 Find your g-spot. You’ll know when you found your g-spot, trust me. If you’re wondering where it is, the g-spot is 2 to 3 inches inside the Vagi#a. It’s on the front wall and you’ll feel a rough patch – that’s the spot. The g-spot can give you a more intense orga#m – who wouldn’t want that?
#9 Stimulate your g-spot. When figuring out how to finger yourself, this is the best part. Once you’ve found your g-spot, play around with your speed and build up the friction – that will create an orga#m.
Some women describe the feeling as being flushed and hot. You won’t necessarily achieve an orga#m. However, the sensation is still amazing.
#10 Slowly build up to an orga#m. You won’t be able to orga#m just with the snap of a finger. You’re going to need to build up to it. You need to turn yourself on, make yourself wet – you see, it’s a process. You can finger yourself rougher, however, if you think that mastur&ati#g for two minutes will do the trick, it won’t.
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