Did it happen to you? You meet a guy, he pays attention to you, he is impulsive, romantic, funny, charms you in any way possible and it seems like he could be “the one”.
After a period of dating you decide it’s time to get under the sheets –and all of the sudden, he’s no longer the Prince Charming you previously knew. He doesn’t reply your texts, he never calls you and before you know it-you are nothing in each other’s lives.
Many girls had this issue at a certain period in their life, they are still confused about the reason why their so-called Prince has suddenly disappeared. Some men have discussed the reasons for their behavior and were kind enough to share them, as well.
If this disaster ever happens to some of you girls out there, here are the top 5 reasons that can explain it for you:
1. It is no more than just s*x.
Many men are looking for a simple one-night stand. It is the time period when they aren’t really into being serious, so after getting what they want, and by the “No strings attached “ rule(obviously!), they think they haven’t done anything bad to you, what so ever.
2. Maybe they simply just don’t like you enough (Oops!)
Let’s face it. Men are basically just that- men. They can meet some girl and get euphoric about her, and after having s*x they realize she’s not really their type. After the so-called “euphoria” he could realize you are not the one he has been looking for, not as thrilling as you seemed. That, of course, is opposite with girls, they tend to gain an impression of the guy before they hit the bed. What a mess!
3. You have simply lost the flame.
You maybe couldn’t keep your hands off each other at first, but sometimes after being completely intimate, you realize that this chemistry that you shared was just not that real. This happens quite a lot, actually. The primary attraction simply disappears.
4. Involving too many emotions.
The agreement of “No strings attached” is not easy after having s*x, right? You are falling for him, and he feels like you are asking for too much. Guys sense that attachment and can be turned off by the idea that you may actually expect effort from them. It happens to girls quite often, but it could be a major reason for a man to disappear from their life.
5. It was just not meant to be.
As the saying goes “It takes a village to raise a child”, it takes much effort to maintain a good relationship too. Both sides have to work on every aspect of their character in order to make it work. S*x is simply not enough- add emotions, attitude, behavior, and interests which are major factors for two youngsters to get serious.
You can never have a second first time in s*x, and when you finally do it, the guy (which is naturally the less emotional one, after all) considers all things about you, whether you are worth it or not.
Guys are fascinated by women and would turn over the world in order to get them in bed. When they succeed the fascination is mostly simply gone and the real views take their turn.
All things clarified, right ladies?
Source http://www.naturalhealthyways.com
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