Want hotter s8x, a better bond with your partner, or all of the above? Before you even test drive a new position or call in a toy for backup, it’s worth having a se*y Q and A sesh with your partner.

But you can leave questions like, “What’s your favorite position?” to the rookies. Instead, bookmark these se*ologist-approved Qs for some heated conversation. Here we go!

1.       What is Your Hottest S*xual Fantasy?

Not every fantasy is something we actually want to happen IRL, says Morse. Take a threesome, for example. If your partner imagines themselves involved in one, find out specifics about the fantasy: Who's the third party? What’s the setting? What positions do you try?  You can still act out a threesome with just the two of you by talking about it during s*x, says Morse. “This can actually be way safer and hotter than the actual menage a trois.”

2.       What Turns You On?

Before you can have mind-blowing s*x with your partner, you need to define what that means for yourself, Morse says. “Having this conversation with a partner is an effective jumping-off point for getting the s*x you truly want,” Morse says. By being prepared to answer this question before you ask your partner, you'll get his mind working on how to please you, she says. 

3.       How Do You Like To Be Touched??

This is perhaps one of the most important things to get feedback on, says Holly Richmond, Ph.D., and a certified s*x therapist and marriage and family counselor. Many men prefer a stronger, massage-like caress, she explains. Women may prefer long strokes or light touch, she says. “It’s also important to know how a person likes to be touched on their non-erogenous zones versus how they like their genitals touched,” she says. “The best route to better, hotter, more connected s*x is to know what you like, and ask for it.”

 

Source http://www.womenshealthmag.com

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